Affair: It is seductive and destructive at the same time

But there is enough support for affair novices. Advice on how to have fun in someone else's bed can now be found not only in men's but also in women's magazines. And if that's not enough for you, check out the infidelity portals mentioned.

Of course, the most important tips are always the same: put the cell phone on silent or, even better, buy a separate card; don't shower before you go home – who comes out of the office smelling fresh?; no new positions in bed tried with the lover; no scratches on the skin and for goodness sake no hickeys. Sometimes passion falls by the wayside. But luckily there are still (real or fictitious) business trips and weekends when your partner is not there. What is certain is that whoever wants to can. But what to do with a guilty conscience?

Because not everyone likes to lie to their partner's face when they ask: "Why are you coming home so late?" Some couples have come to terms here over the years, which means they don't even ask and don't embarrass the other person about having to lie. But these are the fewest. After all, who doesn't want a relationship full of love and exclusiveness? Nobody likes to share, especially not the intimate moments of lust. But it happens everywhere. And no one is really safe from it. It's true that hardly anyone admits that they're having an affair, most of them only had one in the past, but the people who appear in the statistics have to come from somewhere.